It is your knowledge, your skill, your patience, your guidance, your kindness, and your heart which allows the patients with whom you work with to accomplish all that they do. You never seem to give up on a patient even if it seems or feels like they’ve given up on themselves, and that action by itself can be a tremendous source of strength that you might not even realize. Always remember with the appropriate humility that it doesn’t matter how much drive the patient has without your contributions, as the patients will be facing a much longer path ahead of them without your help. Your contributions should never be ignored or overlooked, and you deserve the thanks of so many people. Just please always remember that the patients know their body more intimately than you do. They live there while you’re merely visiting. Living through it is far more instructive than any amount of “observation,” and you may need to be occasionally reminded of that.
Never worry about whether or not other patients are watching you.
If they’re watching, it could just as easily be curiosity on their part. Considering that they’re also facing their own personal battles, they’re most likely either cheering you on or watching in genuine curiosity. Any other reactions don’t matter in this vein because you’re the one ultimately fighting your battle. Always accept support as it means you’re not as alone as you may feel.
If they’re not watching you, most often it’s to help you concentrate on what you’re doing. They’re leaving you completely alone simply because they don’t want to intrude on you or interfere with you. You’d be amazed how many prayers of support that are still being sent your way.
Never fear even perceived failure. It simply means that you’re trying and you’re learning. You’ll learn and grow as long as you never give up on yourself.
Among so much else, you’ll learn about yourself most of all. Including and especially how much strength you really have, and that’s something you’ll always have and can never be taken from you. Remember while you’re learning that you know your personal situation better than anyone else. Living it is more instructive than any amount of observation, and you may have to occasionally remind some people of that.
With hard work, and providing you don’t give up, you’ll really succeed far more than you might realize; but, only if you never give up.














































